{"id":3285,"date":"2010-09-30T12:13:00","date_gmt":"2010-09-30T12:13:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/croixglorieuse.org\/lapinbleu\/divers\/non-classe\/l-amitie-suite-depassement-pardon\/"},"modified":"2010-09-30T12:13:00","modified_gmt":"2010-09-30T12:13:00","slug":"l-amitie-suite-depassement-pardon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/croixglorieuse.org\/lapinbleu\/l-amitie-suite-depassement-pardon\/","title":{"rendered":"L’amiti\u00e9 suite (d\u00e9passement, pardon)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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 <\/span> \"page38-image1-Lapinbleu-Nuit<\/span><\/span> <\/p>\n

5- R\u00e9flexion, d\u00e9passement, pardon :<\/span> <\/p>\n

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Le tigre, qui n’est pas<\/span> <\/p>\n

dans le conflit,<\/span> dit une<\/span><\/span> <\/p>\n

parole qui va faire son<\/span> <\/p>\n

chemin chez son<\/span> <\/p>\n

compagnon.<\/span> <\/p>\n

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On voit que l’\u00e9l\u00e9phant passe progressivement de la col\u00e8re \u00e0 des sentiments de neutralit\u00e9 puis d’introspection. Il regrette.<\/span> <\/p>\n

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\"page38-image2-Lapinbleu-Nuit \"page38-image3-Lapinbleu-Nuit <\/p>\n

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Il est en train de comparer le Bien commun (le but initial) et sa propre attitude (Int\u00e9r\u00eat personnel).<\/span> <\/p>\n

La question est \u00ab\u00a0Est-ce que \u00e7a vaut le coup de se f\u00e2cher pour \u00e7a ?\u00a0\u00bb<\/span> <\/p>\n

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Mais pour cela, il va \u00eatre oblig\u00e9 de reconna\u00eetre ses torts et de les assumer.<\/span> <\/p>\n

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Manque de pot, ses retrouvailles avec le dromadaire ne se font pas dans les bonnes conditions; ils se percutent.<\/span> <\/p>\n

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Le dromadaire, qui n’a pas fait ce chemin int\u00e9rieur de<\/span> remise en question, \u00e9videmment se met en col\u00e8re. Normal, quoi.<\/span><\/span> <\/p>\n

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<\/span><\/span>L\u00e0, il y a deux solutions:<\/span> <\/p>\n

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<\/span>-Il m’insulte, je pars au quart de tour; donc je l’insulte.<\/span> <\/p>\n

<\/span>-Il m’insulte, j’ai fait un chemin, pas lui, donc j’essaye de me mettre \u00e0 sa place.<\/span> <\/p>\n

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L’\u00e9l\u00e9phant choisit la deuxi\u00e8me solution, il prend sur lui et ne r\u00e9pond pas.  <\/span><\/span> <\/p>\n

 \"page39-image3-Lapinbleu-Nuit<\/span> <\/p>\n

Le dromadaire en rajoute une couche. L’\u00e9l\u00e9phant ne bronche toujours pas. Sa col\u00e8re est tomb\u00e9e, il attend<\/span> que la col\u00e8re du dromadaire tombe aussi pour pouvoir lui r\u00e9pondre paisiblement.<\/span><\/span> <\/p>\n

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Une porte au dialogue est ouverte.<\/span> <\/p>\n

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(la situation est encore plus embouill\u00e9e, parce que le dromadaire reproche au tigre d’\u00eatre complice de quelque chose dont il n’a m\u00eame pas id\u00e9e. L’\u00e9l\u00e9phant aurait tr\u00e8s bien pu se dire \u00ab\u00a0ouf, je ne suis pas seul \u00e0 m’en prendre plein la tronche, on va \u00eatre deux \u00e0 assumer MA b\u00eatise. Il sait que c’est une fausse route. S’il faisait \u00e7a, il y aurait ensuite conflit entre lui et le tigre)<\/span> <\/p>\n

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<\/span>L’\u00e9l\u00e9phant reconna\u00eet donc ses torts et les assume (assumer, c’est \u00eatre pr\u00eat \u00e0 en tirer les cons\u00e9quences. C’est aussi \u00eatre \u00e0 la merci de l’autre qui se trouve \u00e0 ce moment sup\u00e9rieur \u00e0 moi).<\/span><\/span> <\/p>\n

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Reconstruction<\/span><\/span><\/span> <\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

   5- R\u00e9flexion, d\u00e9passement, pardon :      Le tigre, qui n’est pas dans le conflit, dit une parole qui va faire son chemin chez son compagnon.     On voit que l’\u00e9l\u00e9phant passe progressivement de la col\u00e8re \u00e0 des sentiments de neutralit\u00e9 puis d’introspection. Il regrette.                   …<\/p>\n

L’amiti\u00e9 suite (d\u00e9passement, pardon)<\/span> Lire la suite\u00a0\u00bb<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[151],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3285","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-themes"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/croixglorieuse.org\/lapinbleu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3285","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/croixglorieuse.org\/lapinbleu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/croixglorieuse.org\/lapinbleu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/croixglorieuse.org\/lapinbleu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/croixglorieuse.org\/lapinbleu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3285"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/croixglorieuse.org\/lapinbleu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3285\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/croixglorieuse.org\/lapinbleu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3285"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/croixglorieuse.org\/lapinbleu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3285"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/croixglorieuse.org\/lapinbleu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3285"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}